The pressures faced by Apostle Phillip Walker and Co-Pastor Vickie Walker are incredible. They are expected to lead flawless lives, always be available and to have all the answers we need, no matter the questions. They live in a glass house, their lives visible to the entire congregation and the community. If either of them seems a little down or even weary, we’re disappointed. Who among us could withstand such pressure? And yet these are the unrealistic expectations we place on these servants of God.
It’s time to recognize and appreciate all they do for us, the way God intended. “The elders who direct the affairs of the church well are worthy of double honor, especially those whose work is preaching and teaching” (1 Timothy 5:17).
Let’s celebrate our spiritual leaders with the positive affirmation they need to continue with one of God’s most precious assignments – the spiritual well-being of the MPWOC flock. This year’s anniversary theme is “Year of Jubilee/Apostolic Release,” and we are celebrating with love offerings and the following special services:
- 7:30 p.m., Friday, Aug. 10: Bishop Howard V. Winston and Trinity United Faith Center Church of Raleigh will be our guests.
- 11 a.m., Sunday, Aug. 12: Rev. Lynwood Swann will speak during the morning worship service.
- 4 p.m. Sunday, Aug. 12: Pastor James P. Perkins and Victory Tabernacle Church of Raleigh will be our guests.
For more information about our Pastors Appreciation Services, contact Rev. Swann.
THREE SIMPLE WAYS TO ENCOURAGE YOUR PASTOR
by R.C. Sproul Jr., Ligonier.org
Pastors are human, too. That means, of course, that they sin, but it also means that they have ordinary human needs. While no one joins the ministry in order to receive riches or accolades, honor or power, while shepherds are called to serve others rather than themselves, such doesn’t mean that they are not given to discouragement.
Most of us, most of the time, love our pastor, and are grateful for him. Few of us, however, understand that he needs encouragement. What even fewer of us grasp is how we can be an encouragement to him. Here are three simple ideas.
First, pay attention to his labors. Though we do not have a duty to be at the church every time the doors are open, one thing that discourages pastors is our unwillingness to simply avail ourselves of his gifts. When the pastor labors in his study to prepare a Bible study lesson, or writes a blog post, and the sheep under his care pay no attention, it is discouraging. It says to the pastor, “I do not value what you do for me and my family. Your efforts have no effect because I won’t even be bothered to read, or to listen. I will download the sermons of celebrities that don’t know me. I will read the wisdom of those with book contracts.” It’s not that your pastor is jealous of the gifts of others. It is instead that he is jealous for you and your growth in wisdom. A less gifted man who knows and loves you is far more potent in your life than a more gifted man far, far away.
Second, speak well of him to others. When you speak well to the pastor, if he is prone to discouragement, it might not have the impact you wish it to have. Such kind words can easily be written off as kindness rather than gratitude, as flattery rather than sincerity. But if word comes back to him, and it will, that you have spoken well of him, to others in the church, or even to those in your community, he will have to take your good word to heart. It might also encourage those with whom you speak to have a deeper appreciation for your pastor, and that’s usually a good thing. Of course the one you should be speaking to the most about your pastor is the Great Shepherd of the sheep. Pray with gratitude for the man Christ has given you, and the man will be encouraged.
Third, pursue godliness. Because he loves you, what your pastor wants more than anything else is for you to grow in grace and wisdom, to become more like Jesus. What is most discouraging for him then isn’t how poorly he may be treated, how badly he may be honored, but how poorly his sheep are doing. He is encouraged most, however, when you are doing well. When he sees your wife’s beaming face, he knows it is because you are seeking to be a godly husband and father, and is encouraged. When he sees you turning the other cheek in your relationship with your pew neighbor, he is encouraged to know that the leaven of the kingdom is spreading among his flock. When he sees you visiting the widow and the orphan, he knows you are practicing true religion, and rejoices.
Don’t, in short, tell your pastor how smart he is, nor how brilliant his sermons are. Don’t tell him how funny he is, nor how dignified. Show him how his labor in showing you Jesus is making you more like Him. That is the desire of his heart, because that is the desire of His heart.